To stop feeling it, you must first understand the jealousy and insecurity.
There are three main factors that cause jealousy:
1. Need something
2. Note some competition
3. Not sure of our abilities
These three factors combined result in jealousy and insecurities that you feel when you realize that someone excels at something or threatened status. If you are not any of those factors, then those emotions will not bother you.
How to stop feeling jealous or insecure?
Since two of these three factors are beyond your control, it makes more sense to try to control the third factor, which is faith in your abilities.
As humans, we always need and always try to find people who seem to compete with us, so trust in our abilities is all that we have to end we are feeling jealousy.
Having doubts in your ability to accomplish your goals before your competition may be the main cause of jealousy you are feeling, and the more confidence you have, the less you will feel jealous.
Examples of jealousy and insecurity in life
When someone smiles at your wife and you feel jealous, it means you fear that man steal your woman. Perceived competence, self-doubt and need to be with her.
When you feel jealous because a friend was promoted, even if you work in another company, it means that you’re afraid and you do not succeed.
There are many examples and they all move around a point, which is reduced to doubt your abilities. If you really want to stop being jealous and insecure, you must develop your own skills, make yourself known, develop faith in your skills and build confidence in yourself.
Otherwise, always feel insecure and jealous when someone achieves something you want to achieve.
As a jealous person identify
Jealousy is extremely dangerous and can cause a person, in extreme cases, perform actions that harm others.
A jealous person can harm you as much as your own values allow.
Identifying people jealous
Is there any way to tell if someone is jealous or not?
Of course, as follows:
1. Critical accompanied by negative energy
Your best friend may criticize you because they care about you, but sometimes the criticism may be accompanied by negative energy in the form of jealousy. A true friend will usually criticize in private, while a jealous person will do in public. So be careful who criticizes you on Facebook.
2. Speaking ill of you
Gossip are a powerful sign of jealousy. The jealous person you always try to make you look bad to others. As always you can not in your presence, you do so at your back.
There is a difference between criticizing someone and discourage. A jealous person evaluate always try to feel better about herself.
4. No congratulate
This is one of the most powerful signs of jealousy. It will be very difficult for someone to congratulate you if he’s jealous of you because you feel sad when you’re happy. Announces good news in front of someone and study their reaction.
Avoid being too bright in front of the wrong person
Be careful to whom you communicate your successes. You could earn a lot of enemies.